About the quote you posted above from the shoutbox, if you have a grievance with anyone about something they've done here then we ask you to raise it in private with a mod / admin.
The reason is that we try to keep this a happy place.
However, since you've raised it publicly I'll answer you publicly - You posted "You must be kidding" in the shoutbox when I asked Blacksheep to pm me his paypal address for his prize. If I was blacksheep I would have been offended by what you posted so maybe you haven't helped matters.
Anyway, I accept that not everyone gets along all the time but I just want to respectfully ask you to PM me in future if you feel you feel like this and if you meet up on a party buy each other a few beers and forget about it, life's too short.
Locking this now because it's not going anywhere, just PM me if you want to discuss.