hey raizor no problem mate.
the arduino is probably the best documented microcontroller out there with tons of libs and examples so defo the best too use as a jump start. i went a different way i started here
http://www.parallax.com/ but in hind sight that maybe wasnt the right way although ive had tons of fun with the parallax too i built the game development extension board now it plugs into my tv and using a nunchuck controller i can play games with it.
yes definitely grab as many breadboards as you can you will soon need them

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also grab things like jumper cables, leds, resistors, capacitors, a few voltage regulators, these are all dirt cheep off fleabay..
also keep a look out for old bust electronic toys or items about the house, you can pull loads of stuff off them and use them with your breadboards..
once you have a nice little collection of parts making the actual stuff is easy..
the motorized webcam should be perfectly possible you will need a little motor controller for the arduino again cheep of ebay but makes driving motors in forward or reverse easy. for assembly you will probably need a glue gun and some sticks.
ill dig out some links with the parts you will need if you like.