Well, yes. Demoscene seems to be more harsh, also the quality and work behind some of the good demos is something that I can hardly reach ;P
You know something? This is why I liked this place and also the quickbasic/freebasic communities. There are fewer people here, the spirit is a bit diferrent, more friendly I'd say, also we are coders who exchange effects and stuff most of the times, "hey look, I did this!" "Cool mate!!!", there is a bit diferrence in this aspect on the basic scene. I am not sure why this happens..
But since I was born in the demoscene, I love her (even if she has too high standards for me ;P), and I still want to see what I can achieve there (Till today I never managed to finish a fully designed demo, I was mostly hacking with some random bunch of effects I did and we never had too active gfx/musicians/coders in eveyr group I was involved anyways, putting myself too

). So there are dreams for me. However, I can still enjoy the mostly codewise asm intros, 8bit codings, etc. And doing some basic stuff here and there at times (I wish I had time for more of these).
So, I am between here and there. And I've learned (I think) to not care much about harsh comments..